...8... philosophising part eight... ( 8 out of 18 )...

dear  son  taue…
dear  son  peter…

you’re  perfectly  right…
as  I  found  their  uniforms  pretty…
who  got  in  trouble…   was  me…

I  was  the  one  who  led  myself  be  fooled…
this  was  one  of  the  most  senseless  thing  I’ve  done  in  my  whole  life…

but  I  only  realized  it…  when  I  was…
near  the  end  of  the  second  year  of  the  gymnasium-school…  ( at  age  12…)
and  specially…  at  the  beginning  of  the  third-year…  ( at  age  13…)

when  I  got  into  the  “colegio-militar”…
I  was  still  living  in  recife…  ( amelia  street)…
I’ve  been  studying  there  for  only  the  first-semester  of  the  first-year…

in  july…  ( our  winter-vacation…)
we  moved  back  to  rio-de-janeiro…
more  precisely…  to  ipanema…
into  an  apartment  on  prudente-de-morais  street…
( the  first  street  parallel  to  the  street  of  the  beach…)
an  apartment…  which  my  father  had  just  bought…

as  we  arrived  in  rio…
they  could  accept  me  at  “colegio militar do rio de janeiro”…
since  I  was  transferred  from  “colégio militar do recife”...
and  this  transfer  was  of  the  type  “automatic”…
meaning  that  I  wouldn’t  have  to  take  another  entrance-exam…
which  were…  usually…  very  hard… specially  for  the  “colegios-militares”…

the  reason  for  this  waiver  was  because.
 I  had  already  passed  the  entrance-exam  in  recife…
six  months  ago…

this  entrance-exam  used  to  be  so  hard…
that…   when  we  were  still  in  recife…
my  mother  had  enrolled  myself  into  a  preparatory-little-school..
specialized  in  entrance-exams  to  the  “colegio-militar”…

in  other  words…
since  I  was  very  young…
I  found  myself  inside  an  environment  of  too  much  responsibility…
of  too  much  discipline…  of  too  much  study…
of  too  much  worry…

nowadays…  as  I  reflect  about  all  that…
I  see  that…   what  happened  to  me…
( the  fact  that…  since  very  young…  I  used  to  carry  too  much…
   responsibility  on  my  “shoulders”…)
has  its  advantages  and  also  its  disadvantages…

the  advantage  is  that…   ( in  spite  of  being  too  early )…
I  was  preparing  myself  academically…
studying  a  lot…
which…  obviously…  has  its  advantages…

the  disadvantage  is  that…   if  a  ten-years-old  child…
doesn’t  play…
he  ends  up  compensating  this  lack…
years  later…
much  older…

and…  probably…  this…  maybe…  did  happen  to  me…
when  at  age  forty-four…
in  hawaii…
I  used  to  spend  hours  and  hours  playing  guitar…
on  the  stairs  which  lead  us  to  the  cafeteria…
of  the  university  of  hawaii  at  manoa…

( no  problem…    let’s  move  on…)

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july  1965…    eleven-years-old…
the  first  semester  of  “colegio  militar  do  recife”…   all  done…
everything  ready  to  move  ourselves…
from  recife  back  to  rio-de-janeiro…

in  order  to  say  “good-bye”  to  recife...
my  uncle  marcos…  (my  father’s  brother…)…  carolina…  and  sons…
invited  me  to  stay  a  week  with  them…
in  a  little  fisherman’s  house…  that  they’ve  rented  at  rio-doce…
( a  beach  far  away  from  the  city…
   so  we  could  enjoy  a  week  on  the  beach…
   in  a  fisherman’s  village…  ( rio-doce )…
   which  nowadays  has  nothing  to  do…
   with  that  little-fisherman’s  village  from  the  old-times…
   nowadays  it  is  a  super-populated  neighborhood  of  olinda…
   which  in  turn…   is  considered  as  an  uninterrupted  continuation…
   of  recife…   becoming  everything  a  sort  of  a  megalopolis…)

anyway…  they  rented  this  little  beach  cabin…
and  invited  me  to  stay  with  them…  at  rio-doce  beach…
in  my  last  week  of  recife…
there  I  went…
calmly…
in  a  very  nice  environment…
a  family  very  united…
very  harmonious…
they’ve  always  treated  me  very  well…

at  night…   that  marvelous  sky…
my  uncle…   ( always  on  the  hammock )…
chatting  with  me  how  beautiful  those  stars  are…
there  was  no  electricity  in  rio-doce  in  those  days…
so…  the  stars  used  to  be  even  more  beautiful…
since  there  were  no  lights  on  the  street-poles…

early  in  the   morning…
I  liked  to  wake  up  early…
and   go  to  swim  in  the  ocean…
alone…  in  such  infinite  northeast  sea…

I  used  to  take  with  me  a  sort  of  a  morey-boogie...
which  I  had  gotten  recently…
but  hadn't  used  it  yet…
( I  had  never  caught  any  wave  in  my  life…)
( I  didn’t  even  know  the  meaning  of  such  expression…)

since  the  waves…  here  in  the  northeast…  are  usually…  very  small…
I  used  to  go…  very  early  in  the  morning…
paddling  with  the  board…
laying  down  over  the  board…
I  used  to  paddle…  in  that  cool  water  of  the  morning-time…
exploring  those  natural  reef  pools…  etc…

on  the  last  two  days…
the  sea  decided  to  gift  me…
with  some  nice  little  waves…
which  could  push  us…  (me  and  the  board)…  for  about  twenty  meters…

the  first  wave  was  unbelievable…
how  wonderful…
it  was  the  feeling  of  the  wave  pushing  me…  laying  down  over  the  board…
for  about  twenty  meters…  or  even  more…
what  a  divine  sensation…
what  a  pleasure…
I  had  never  felt  anything  so  good…

thereafter  I  had  so  much  fun…
I  caught  many  other  waves…
I  used  to  catch  them  already  on  the  foamy  stage…
it  was  easier  this  way…
specially  for  someone  who  was  doing  it  for  the  first  time…

back  on  the  sand…  I  talked  to  a  man…
(maybe  he  was  one  of  my  uncle’s  relatives  or  friends…)
as  I  chatted  with  him  that  I  had  a  lot  of  fun  catching  the  “jacare”…
(which  was  the  name  everyone  used  to  call  the  “body-surfing”…
  or  else…  today’s  “boogie-boarding”…)
the  man  told  me  that  in  rio-de-janeiro  they  do  it…
but  there…  in  rio…  they  do  it…  standing  up  on  the  board…

I  replied:…
“ standing  up…   on  the  board…? “

he  answered…
“…  yes…  as  if  they  were  skiing…
  and  they  have  a  long  board…
  and  they  slide  together  with  the  wave  all  the  way  to  the  sand…”

I  was  fascinated…

this  would  probably  be  really  very  good...
no  doubt…  I  would  like  to  go  to  rio-de-janeiro…

I  would  like  to  see  closely…
people  sliding  on  the  waves…
standing  up…
on  a  very  long  board…

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should  we  stop  here…?
I  guess  so…
otherwise…  there  will  be  nothing  left  to  tell…

a  very  tight  hug…
in  both  of  you…

I  hope  you’re  doing  well…  healthwise…
stay  with  God…

see  you  soon…
a  big  hug…
your  father…
                             …luis antonio…